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Name:
Patricia Jo Pagnotta
Date of Death:
Dec 31, 2011
Location of Service:
St. Mary's Catholic Church - Stevensville
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STEVENSVILLE – Patricia Jo Pagnotta, 62, died peacefully at home with her family by her side in Stevensville on Saturday, Dec. 31, 2011. Patty had been valiantly battling stomach cancer throughout 2011.

Patty started her fight for life at birth after arriving two months premature in Wolf Point on Dec. 17, 1949. The oldest of seven children of Joe and Patricia Hathaway, she was raised in Glendive. She graduated from Dawson County High School in 1968 and later graduated from Eastern Montana College with a degree in psychology.

Her first job after graduation was at the Montana Developmental Center in Boulder, where she met her husband and soul mate, Gary Pagnotta. She was married in 1974 and moved to Bozeman.

While in Bozeman, she worked at Family Outreach and started raising her two boys, Jason and Nick. She spent hundreds of hours attending and watching numerous sporting events. She was the voice of reason and compassion in a house dominated by sports and competition. Patty worked for STEP in Billings helping families of children with disabilities. While working and raising two kids, Patty achieved her master’s degree in early childhood development.

After seeing both kids through high school and college, Patty and Gary fulfilled their wish of spending their remaining lives in western Montana and moved to Stevensville in 2004. Patty worked at the Hamilton Middle School as a counselor. She was always grateful for the wonderful and gracious co-workers whom she considered dear friends.

By example, Patty taught all of us toughness, courage and stoicism as a big sister, wife, friend and mother. While battling her second bout with cancer, Patty continued to work full time as well as volunteer as a tour guide at the St. Mary’s Mission in Stevensville. She enjoyed traveling and cherished spending time with her three granddaughters.

Patty was preceded in death by her husband Gary in 2006 as well as her father Joe and brother Mark. She is survived by her sons, Jason (Monica) of Tucson, Ariz., and Nick (Melissa) of Missoula; mother Patricia of Glendive; brothers Pete (Marlo) Hathaway of Tucson and Paul (Colleen) Hathaway of Madison, Wis.; sisters Molly (Scott) Reed of Phoenix, Teresa Roe of Glendive and Ann (Ron) Frazer of Billings; granddaughters Liliana, Sofia and Mallory; and numerous nieces and nephews.

Funeral services will be held at 11 a.m. Thursday, Jan. 5, at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Stevensville.

Please send donations in lieu of flowers to Ravalli Services Corp., 219 Pennsylvania Ave., Hamilton, MT 59840.

Patty’s family would like to express their gratitude to the Hamilton Middle School faculty and students for all their support during this difficult time



Read more: http://missoulian.com/news/local/obituaries/patricia-jo-pagnotta/article_8d644e4e-3559-11e1-afe8-0019bb2963f4.html#ixzz1iK4p4lt2

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Location of Services:
St. Mary's Catholic Church
Street:
315 Charlos Street
ZIP:
59870
City:
Stevensville
State:
Montana
Country:
RA

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#21 Sheila Jordan Kunick 2012-01-04 08:39 To Patty's family … I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Having Patty in Great Falls so many years ago when we went to college and lived in the dorm made everything so much fun. You are all in my thoughts and prayers … she will be missed by many. Quote
 
 
#22 Kerry Hanson 2012-01-04 10:07 Dear Pagnotta family,
Although I did not know Patty well, she was a fellow educator in the Hamilton School District and an amazing teacher. She was an inspiration to all of us, leading with quiet confidence, determination, and strength.
May you, her family, find comfort in knowing that she was held in the highest esteem and was a tremendous role model to the students and staff alike.
God's blessings for peace.
Kerry Hanson
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#23 Amanda Shaffer 2012-01-04 15:49 Pagnotta family - Though my time at HMS was all together too brief, Patty was one of the people who certainly has left a lasting impression on me. When I arrived as a brand new teacher, Patty was so welcoming and warm! She was always checking up on me and asking how I was doing… it was nice to know someone was keeping an eye out for this newbie! Over those two years, because her house was right on my way to school, I was able to stop in for coffee a couple of times before school. I cherished those little chats and always left in such amazement at the person Patty was - kind, generous, tenacious and so, SO incredibly brave…Patty was such a patient woman, staff and students alike benefited from her gracious spirit. The lives of students, parents, staff and colleagues are forever changed because of Patty and the influence she had on them. She will be sorely missed by so, so many people. God bless your family and may He hold you in palm of His hand during this time.
-Amanda Shaffer
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#24 Jay Nierstheimer 2012-01-04 15:55 Jason & Nick

I wanted to send you and the family my deepest condolences and my thoughts and prayers are with everyone. Your mom was like a second mom to Lee and myself all those years growing up together. She was a great woman and will be missed by everyone.
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#25 Mary Ann Weber 2012-01-04 20:46 To Patty's family, I worked with Patty and with Gary for many years. They were a talented and very entertaining fun couple at our D.D. conferences and did so much to improve life in this state for many people with disabilities.
You have angels holding you now. So sorry for your loss
Mary Ann Weber
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#26 Connie Sills 2012-01-05 03:19 Pagnotta family, I'm sorry for your loss. Patty was so much help to me while teaching at the middle school. She understood where the students were and was one terrific asset. Now she's where we all hope to be, she has completed her journey. Bless you Patty Quote
 
 
#27 Donna Feight 2012-01-05 10:29 Jason, Nick, and all family: Your Mom was such a blessing in my life and at our school. Our doors were only feet apart and we visited at least a half dozen times a day. I know my life will never be the same at school. Thank you for sharing such a wonderful video at the reception. It let me have one last trip with Patty and I will cherish it.
God's Blessings to all of you
Donna Feight
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#28 Debbie Heerdt 2012-01-06 09:09 Dear Pagnotta's and Hathaways, I am so sorry for your loss and am remembering many happy memories with both Gary and Patty, they always seemed to be having a good time, I remember a lot of dancing going on! Always attentive to others and they both will be missed by those they served. All my prayers to you all. Quote
 
 
#29 Mona McCarty 2012-01-07 02:48 Dear Family of Patty,

I work with Patty at Hamilton Middle School and want to express my deepest sympathy to you all. Patty was an amazing woman. She showed all of us what strength and determination really is. She was truly an inspiration to us all. We are going to miss her so much. Everyone, students, teachers and staff loved her very much. We all know she suffered in silence and never complained. I know you as her family have a long hard struggle in her passing. Find comfort that she is now with Gary and no longer suffering. She left a definite footprint by all of her wonderful work with kids all over and particularly at HMS. We will miss her and cherish the time we had with her.

Mona McCarty
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